I Am This Woman

… expanding my universe.

D-Day

(28 of 50) Forgive me for just a moment, for not being fluffy, funny or pointless. This is a particularly important day for me, historically, as an American and as an Air Force brat. Today is June 6. On a pretty day in summer, 64 years ago, a whole lot of men, young and old, [...]

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Lap Dog

.flickr-photo { border: solid 2px #000000; } .flickr-yourcomment { } .flickr-frame { text-align: left; padding: 3px; } .flickr-caption { font-size: 0.8em; margin-top: 0px; } Lap Dog, originally uploaded by tigerwillow. (17 of 50) My 40 lb. lap dog, Miss Lucy. She is not allowed on the couch unless in a lap, so it works out [...]

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Mother’s Day

(16 of 50) I lost my mama in 2003. So for her, I will try to remember the good times, even though there was thousands of bad times to try and forget. As I sit here today, I think I would withstand some bad times just to have her back for a few hours, to [...]

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Quilt, Perdu

(3 of 50) I just need a small space here to grieve publically over something that has been lost to me. I thought I would get over it by now, but I haven’t. Writing might help. Starting just after I separated from my husband, I started making a patchwork quilt for my son. I hoped [...]

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Two Letters from the Land of Mourning

I wrote some letters today. Here are snippets for public viewing. 1. February is bittersweet for me. January is a snowplow – all the leftover pent-up energy and procrastinated chores, the Boy’s birthday (which of course must be a standalone event, not at all like Christmas), and then the annual convention for my company. We [...]

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Learning To Walk

I have learned to walk. Twice. Once as a baby, like everyone else. Once as a six-year-old. I had to relearn to walk because the paralysis that came with polio erased my muscle memory. It’s harder the second time, trust me. But because I got up again and walked, ran, skipped, danced, rode, jogged, tramped, [...]

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Miracles Exist!

One of my bloggy friends – a woman I know only because I like her writing – is a walking miracle. And I love a good story. Read her latest story, in her words, in chronological order, with apologies for perhaps plagiarizing too much of her blog into mine: Boxes Frightened News Questions Memo

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No More Auld Lang Syne

Dan Fogelberg died yesterday. And I am sad. This article gives a briefing. His official website has a link to The Living Legacy, a fan site I believe. I saw him in concert with a girlfriend in 1979. We swooned – it was an acoustic solo concert. Piano and guitar. For two hours, he enthralled [...]

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Life and Death During the Holidays

It’s all around us all the time. But this time of year, the matters of life and death are on our minds more poignantly, and I have to wonder why. Both in a shake my fist at the sky kind of way, and a tender headtilt “there, there” kind of way. Death. A car ran [...]

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That Old Face

Thanks, Jette, Chip and esteemed panel. This entry is a Holidailies “Best of…” I miss my dad. I miss him more than I miss my mom. I’m not sure why. It’s not because I favored one over the other. I’m sure I do but it might be more about that gender identification thing. I *am* [...]

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