Archive for March 9th, 2008

Open Letter to a Military Wife

Sunday, March 9th, 2008

Hi. We really only know each other online. But I think we have so much in common, more than is readily apparent. I was raised by a military wife, and learned well the lessons that military families must in order to survive.

I’m going to say some things that you cannot say because you are indeed a good military wife. Maybe you agree or disagree. Maybe you are pumping your fist in the air, or quietly disapproving. But I can say these things because I have no ties anymore, except by memory and loyalty. But I am on the “outside,” I’m a “civvie,” and while some military folks secretly sneer at me, I know better. As a civilian, I get to express some of the opinions that you hold, and hold private. (more…)